Aren't uniforms sexy? Something about the pomp and circumstance of authentic regalia just makes me...well...wet...as I imagine the many nasty things that I could force you to do by way of the power invested in my role and rank.
In anticipation of Christmas, I have just treated myself to an authentic Canadian Air Force uniform, and an unauthentic but very sexy police officer uniform made of an unlikely combination of pvc and bamboo.
If you are as in love with uniforms as I am and want to do some hot power exchange role play before (or during) the holidays, drop me a note.
I enjoy prisoner of war torture scenes, arrest scenes, interrogations scenes, prison scenes...the list goes on...
Be naughty this Christmas. I won't report you to Santa...if you cooperate.
I am Princess Shahrazad, also known as The Alchemical Seductress. A Toronto-based professional dominatrix, sex educator, and spiritual/sexual wayfinder, I invite you to sail with me if you dare, on a voyage of self-discovery via the labyrinthine waterways of psychosexual fantasy and kinky desire...
Sunday, December 5, 2010
Thursday, December 2, 2010
The Importance of Letting Yourself Be
Some recent sessions have me wanting to write something for all those of who struggle with feelings of shame and guilt about their particular fetishes and fantasies.
Any time there is a part of ourselves that we don't like, or that we are afraid our loved ones won't like, we separate from it and stuff it into the unconscious parts of our psyches, telling ourselves that if we just ignore it, maybe it will go away. We may blame ourselves for being "different" from the sexual "norm", or pretend that our interests are more socially acceptable.
But from my heart to yours, I can tell you that as long as you are denying that those parts of yourself exist, you will not know the deep self-acceptance and self-love that comes from letting every part of you have a voice and be seen...those parts which you or others perceive to be acceptable AND those parts which you or others don't.
Sexuality runs deeps to the very core of who we are, and often our strongest sexual associations are established as we are exploring our worlds as children, before we even have a language to speak about them. When I say this I am not implying abuse, but rather am speaking about the natural energy and attraction that young children have for what is in their worlds. They engage with the world in a sensual way, tasting, touching, smelling, hearing, seeing...and inwardly processing those feelings.
Therefore an equation between a particular thing and "feeling good" gets set up, and as we grow up we continue to seek out that which we associate with "feeling good".
That is nobody's fault, and it is neither good or bad, it just is. The problem is that we then grow up into a society that promotes the myth that there is one normal way to get turned-on and engage sexually. So we begin to compare our fantasies with the figurative "guy next door", and judge ourselves as weird or perverted.
BUT THE MYTH THAT THERE IS A SEXUAL "NORMAL" TO WHICH WE SHOULD ALL BE ASPIRING IS JUST THAT - A MYTH!!!
The truth of human sexuality is that the only norm is sexual variation - that is, there are as many different ways of expressing sexuality as there are people in this world.
So whatever your particular flavour, let yourself be. You are perfect exactly as you are.
Any time there is a part of ourselves that we don't like, or that we are afraid our loved ones won't like, we separate from it and stuff it into the unconscious parts of our psyches, telling ourselves that if we just ignore it, maybe it will go away. We may blame ourselves for being "different" from the sexual "norm", or pretend that our interests are more socially acceptable.
But from my heart to yours, I can tell you that as long as you are denying that those parts of yourself exist, you will not know the deep self-acceptance and self-love that comes from letting every part of you have a voice and be seen...those parts which you or others perceive to be acceptable AND those parts which you or others don't.
Sexuality runs deeps to the very core of who we are, and often our strongest sexual associations are established as we are exploring our worlds as children, before we even have a language to speak about them. When I say this I am not implying abuse, but rather am speaking about the natural energy and attraction that young children have for what is in their worlds. They engage with the world in a sensual way, tasting, touching, smelling, hearing, seeing...and inwardly processing those feelings.
Therefore an equation between a particular thing and "feeling good" gets set up, and as we grow up we continue to seek out that which we associate with "feeling good".
That is nobody's fault, and it is neither good or bad, it just is. The problem is that we then grow up into a society that promotes the myth that there is one normal way to get turned-on and engage sexually. So we begin to compare our fantasies with the figurative "guy next door", and judge ourselves as weird or perverted.
BUT THE MYTH THAT THERE IS A SEXUAL "NORMAL" TO WHICH WE SHOULD ALL BE ASPIRING IS JUST THAT - A MYTH!!!
The truth of human sexuality is that the only norm is sexual variation - that is, there are as many different ways of expressing sexuality as there are people in this world.
So whatever your particular flavour, let yourself be. You are perfect exactly as you are.
Monday, November 22, 2010
Anybody home?
Yup. I'm still here.
Still kinky, still happy, still working...
Just a little quieter (read busier) than usual.
Don't be shy to get in touch, I only bite if you ask nicely ;-)
Still kinky, still happy, still working...
Just a little quieter (read busier) than usual.
Don't be shy to get in touch, I only bite if you ask nicely ;-)
Saturday, October 23, 2010
An Amusing Birthday Poem
A sincere thank you to all of you who sent me birthday wishes over the last week. I am taking the liberty to share one of the more amusing notes, a delightful poem written by a devoted slave and aspiring footstool ;-) who had a recent opportunity to serve Me:
Monday After a Session with Princess Shahrazad
It's Monday morning, the welding sparks fly
The machines scream, the supervisors shout
Buddy looks at me, screws up one good eye
"What the fuck are you smiling about?"
The scene replays in the eye of my mind
Her voice wraps around me, a silken jewel
i kneel in silence, Her Highness behind
Excitement of Christmas, last day of school
Thereupon, the transformations begin,
The sofa's a throne, Her cane now a wand
Shame becomes peace, fear's now comfort within
How can i thank Her, but embrace the bond?
Why do i smile, Bud, does that interest you?
If you only knew, if only you knew.
- t.
Monday After a Session with Princess Shahrazad
It's Monday morning, the welding sparks fly
The machines scream, the supervisors shout
Buddy looks at me, screws up one good eye
"What the fuck are you smiling about?"
The scene replays in the eye of my mind
Her voice wraps around me, a silken jewel
i kneel in silence, Her Highness behind
Excitement of Christmas, last day of school
Thereupon, the transformations begin,
The sofa's a throne, Her cane now a wand
Shame becomes peace, fear's now comfort within
How can i thank Her, but embrace the bond?
Why do i smile, Bud, does that interest you?
If you only knew, if only you knew.
- t.
Saturday, October 9, 2010
Another Year Wiser?
Ten days until my birthday on the 19th. A nice little self-indulgent countdown for you:
10: The number of seconds of CBT it takes before a slave looks up at Me pleadingly for mercy.
9: The number of minutes I continue inflicting said CBT before I reconsider his condition.
8: The average number of dirty things that I am thinking about subjecting you to in any given moment.
7: The number of hours I would have to enslave you to accomplish such things.
6: The average number of times a submissive begs me to allow him release.
5: The average number of times that I refuse him.
4: The number of millilitres of cum that said submissive is forced to consume in order to be permitted the aforementioned privilege.
3: The average number of tries it takes to convince a tight rear to take my fist.
2: The number of minutes that it takes a submissive to realize that he actually really likes that fist.
1: The Supreme Mistress, Her Majesty Princess Shahrazad!
10: The number of seconds of CBT it takes before a slave looks up at Me pleadingly for mercy.
9: The number of minutes I continue inflicting said CBT before I reconsider his condition.
8: The average number of dirty things that I am thinking about subjecting you to in any given moment.
7: The number of hours I would have to enslave you to accomplish such things.
6: The average number of times a submissive begs me to allow him release.
5: The average number of times that I refuse him.
4: The number of millilitres of cum that said submissive is forced to consume in order to be permitted the aforementioned privilege.
3: The average number of tries it takes to convince a tight rear to take my fist.
2: The number of minutes that it takes a submissive to realize that he actually really likes that fist.
1: The Supreme Mistress, Her Majesty Princess Shahrazad!
Kinky Thought of the Day
"I have fallen to my knees unable to rise, what kind of trap is this? What kind of chains have tied my hands and feet? It is so strange, so wonderful this helplessness of mine." - Rumi
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
En Francais...
Ok, ok, last trip for awhile...I am just an insatiable travel bug in addition to being an insatiable Mistress (a penchant for intrigue and adventure I suppose)! I will be stomping around the south of France tracing the lineage of Mary Magdalene with a wonderful group of women. Session bookings will resume from October 6 straight on into the holidays...send Me your request for a spot in October via email if you like.
Please note that due to the overwhelming number of projects that I am now involved in to further my vision of sexual healing and development for all who seek it, My time is generally speaking somewhat more limited than it has been in the past. I am of course still offering and enjoying live sessions - there is just a bit less flexibility in terms of when I can fit you in. When you send in a session request, if at all possible, give Me a few potential session times.dates so that I can find a spot that works for both of U/us.
Whips and kisses,
Her Majesty Princess Shahrazad
Please note that due to the overwhelming number of projects that I am now involved in to further my vision of sexual healing and development for all who seek it, My time is generally speaking somewhat more limited than it has been in the past. I am of course still offering and enjoying live sessions - there is just a bit less flexibility in terms of when I can fit you in. When you send in a session request, if at all possible, give Me a few potential session times.dates so that I can find a spot that works for both of U/us.
Whips and kisses,
Her Majesty Princess Shahrazad
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