Monday, July 18, 2011

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Spank Me! Saturday at Oasis AquaLounge





This coming Saturday, July 16 the Oasis Aqualounge (http://www.oasisaqualounge.com/) will be launching their new play dungeon, and to celebrate the occasion I will be facilitating a short BDSM 101 workshop and demo at 11pm!
If you have never explored BDSM with your intimate partner and want to know how to begin, this is one you won't want to miss.
The only caveat is that men are only admitted to the club with a female companion, single women are welcome.
See you there!































Personal Updates!

Well folks, I found my web expert...look forward to some interesting new educational video material from me in the fall. If you have been interested in my work but are not local to Toronto, this is a great way to gain access to more knowledge about sexuality and sexual fantasy from my unique and inimitable perspective. All of my exisiting and many new workshops will be offered in pay-per-video clip format for convenient downloading in the privacy of your own home, no matter where in the world you are viewing from.

The new play space location is proving difficult to find. I am being picky, looking for a place that will meet your need for discretion, accessibility, safety, and atmosphere while meeting my own criteria list. I am not giving up though, so keep intending along with me that the right space reveal itself!

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Musings on Fetish and Travel Plans

First of all, I just wanted to announce two new sets of travel dates during which I will NOT be taking sessions: May 20-29, and June 23-July 4, 2011. Please book now to get a spot before, in between, or after those dates.

I was thinking the other day about how lucky I am that I get exposure to the juicy joys of so many unconventional forms of eroticism. The diversity of desires out there is remarkable and so unique to each person that it is a wonder that anyone can claim not to fetishize anything unusual.

What exactly is a fetish? A dictionary definition:

"Any object regarded with awe as having magickal potency, or an object or non-genital part of the body that causes an erotic response." And don't our fetishes do that for us? Take what is already a pleasurable experience and make it that much more magickal and powerful?

I made a list of 10 of some of the most interesting things that clients over the years have divulged as fetishes that enhance their sexual experience, for your reading pleasure.

1. Hunter rain boots
2. Black nail polish
3. Librarian glasses
4. Gas masks
5. Batman and Robin costumes
6. Vintage petticoats
7. Dove soap (washing mouth out with)
8. Pantyhose
9. Diapers
10.Stuffed Animals

One person's object of adoration might be bizarre to someone else, but we all have them!
What are yours?

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Attention kinky technology/marketing geeks!

I have now been chastized by four separate people for neglecting my blog. What's a busy woman to do??! Since begging your forgiveness is really not my style, I will instead give you a little peek into the projects I am currently working on:


- a brand new website - a series of pay-per-view online video workshops on the psychology of BDSM that are based on my 8 years of personal experience as a pro-domme. - a new and improved location for my playspace. - a new way of offering my unique combination of skills to you, the public, so that you can benefit from them in ways you may not have previously considered.

As these come to fruition I will be posting here to tell you all about them.

I promise.

I am currently seeking open-minded and reliable AV/tech/e-marketing people who are skilled at the following things. If you are one person and are able and willing do all of them well...and I like you... then you're hired!! 1. Online video sales of website content 2. Video recording and upload to online format 3. Small business and e-business marketing strategy and manager

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Off to Phoenix...

Bye folks, be good until I get back...

whips and kisses.
HM Princess Shahrazad

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Japan Crisis Puts Things in Perspective

I am sure there is not a single person out there who is not horrified by the flood of pictures and stories emerging from Japan right now. Perhaps you know people who were affected, who died, or have simply been wondering what you would do if such devastation happened here. In Canada. In Toronto. To you and your loved ones.

While one could say that natural disasters are just something the earth "does" and are not reflective of the way in which we treat Her, I invite you to suspend your disbelief for a moment and view them as a communication from the Headmistress.

Perhaps Her Majesty Goddess Earth is shaking us from our complacency and our sleepwalking. Waking us up to the reality that we are all connected on this relatively tiny little planet. That what impacts a country halfway around the world from us impacts us. Let us not for one minute forget that She is the ultimate dominatrix, the one who weilds the "actual" power that controls our collective destiny as human beings on this planet. It is to Her that we must all surrender, to Her that we must become stewards and service submissives.

Perhaps she is demanding greater self-discipline in the way in which we approach Her, in the way in which we walk upon Her, in the things that we create, in the way that we use resources. If I was to put myself in Her shoes, I would imagine that Her patience is wearing. And her retribution increasingly swift. She is doing it because She cares about us, because in order for us to change for the better, we need to understand that there are consequences to our actions.

Think about it.