G8 plus G20 equals a big pain in the ass!

So the world converges upon Toronto, as most Torontonians attempt to get as far out of the city as the possibly can. If you happen to be watching the evening news and see a protester decked out in thigh high PVC boots and a catsuit with a bullwhip in one hand and a megaphone in the other, yelling something along the lines of "MR. HARPER, YOU'VE BEEN A VERY VERY NAUGHTY BOY..."....it may just be me!

Need Your Feedback!

I am working on two new workshops.

One is for men who have submissive desires but who are too afraid of compromising their masculinity (or maybe just too ashamed, guilt-ridden, or afraid) to explore them.

The second is for female partners of men who have kinky desires, in order to help them better understand their guys' kinks.

I am aware that guys aren't necessarily interested in group workshops with other men. Not always into discussing feelings, much less subversive desires, I realize...so I want to ask: What would make you feel comfortable attending a workshop with other guys with submissive interests? What elements would need to be there?

You can either post your feedback as comments or email Me at the_alchemical_seductress@inbox.com.

Thanks in advance!

!On Vacation!

Please note that I am on vacation on the East Coast from June 2 until June 10 inclusive. I will not be booking sessions during that time. I may or may not be responding to queries, depending on whether or not internet access exists where I am going.
If you would like to book something for June 11 onward, please send Me a note. Just know that My response time will not be as quick as usual!

Have a spankingly good first week of June...!

Kinky Quote of the Day: The Good of BDSM

"BDSM gives you a better sense of perspective – about power, about sensation, about the limits of the body. We learn the difference between power and force.

BDSM allows us to access the dark side of our personalities, validates that the more aggressive, confrontational, unsocialized, kinky side has a place as important as any other aspect of our selves – so it doesn’t leak out in unconscious, unhealthy, unproductive ways.

BDSM teaches us better negotiation and communication skills. It allows us to learn our limits and boundaries. BDSM teaches us about trust. It teaches us how to articulate and pursue our desires.

BDSM allows us to give up or stop that constant inner monologue, that self-monitoring, and gives us a “vacation” from the self. It allows us to set aside certain parts of the self and develop other parts.

BDSM is fun. It feels good. That is an end, a good, in itself and doesn’t need any further justification."

-Dr. Richard A. Sprott is a developmental psychologist and active in the leather community of the San Francisco Bay Area.

Eastern Canada is calling...

It just so happens that I will be visiting PEI from June 3-June 10. If there is interest, I may be able to fit some sessions in on the 5, 6, 7, or 8th of June.

Interest must be communicated to Me before June 1 so that the logistics can be arranged.

See you soon!

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Kinky Thought of the Day

"BDSM is spinning a sexual yarn blending threads of fact and fantasy, drama and comedy, tradition and innovation."

- excerpt from the book Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by P. Miller and M. Devon